This week my Mum was promoted to heaven.
She was 95 years old and until her final days was active and healthy. In fact, her last week saw her attend the Lifeline Brass Blokes Awards night (pictured above) as well as her great grandson being dedicated at Church.
If I had to narrow it down to what I am most thankful to my Mum for, it would be her lasting eternal legacy. Let me explain.
She made some brave decisions at age 54. After separating from my Dad, I remember how hard Mum would work to find cleaning jobs at night while offices were closed and even got her driver’s license, something she was proud of her entire life.
Not only that, but that was when she started a relationship with Jesus and became a Christian. This new life gave her hope, strength and joy.
I can remember Mum sitting for hours with her Bible, a notebook and studying with the help of audio teaching tapes and various resources.
Raising a teenage boy without his Dad in the picture, Mum knew I needed to have healthy male role models and she started taking me to Full Gospel Business Men’s breakfasts, prayer meetings and Church services.
It was at those meetings Mum introduced me to Christian men who were successful in their careers, had healthy relationships with their family and were not addicted to life controlling habits.
As a single Mum, she was laying the foundation for my future and it is because of her selflessness and courage, her commitment to Jesus, and even her ability to reach out and find help in her time of need, that I am who I am today.
If Mum had not been the brave person she was, I would not have met my wife Lenore at Church or raised my two beautiful girls in a healthy family environment.
Yes, my Mums’ legacy is having generational impact.
When I look back and realise that my Mum was my age and older when I was in my teenage years, I’m amazed at her energy, stamina and zest for life. Right up until her last week, her life was full of blessing.
Mum made me who I am today because of the choices she made to raise me in the right environment. She courageously turned my life around for the better.
What we can all learn from my Mum’s life:
It’s never too late to make a change for the better;
We need to do what we can and leave what we can’t to God;
Jesus never leaves us;
We need the help of others and we need to be a help to others;
God’s Word is life changing;
To live today with as much enthusiasm and energy as we have and get up tomorrow and do it all again; and
The last half can be the best half.
Thank you Mum, until we meet again.